And remember, when you insinuate that no one can replace your mom, aap yeh samajh hi nahi rahe ke aap kya convey kar rahe ho. They don't see it as, “Oh my God, they don't value me. I'm not their first priority.” They'll think, “Okay, I should prioritise her and make her feel that her mom is the best.” No one can complete another person, not even your mom. You need Allah, and you need to work on your own growth and skills. Yes, we need human connections and relationships, but no one completes you. Only Allah does.But when you tell someone that they're the best while also saying that something reminds you of your past, you're creating a narrative in their mind. For example, you posted a story saying that a particular scene gave you flashbacks of your past. The other person might feel insecure, thinking, “Oh my God, she's thinking about someone else while she's with me.” But they might also think, “Achha, she's missing her, so I should miss someone too.” They may start remembering their first love as well.

Toh yeh samajhdari nahi hoti. You're actually apne pair par kulhari maar rahe ho.

You have the wrong sequence and priorities, and that's why things keep going wrong. The centre of your universe should be Allah, then your growth, and then everything else as part of your life. Within those other priorities, family comes first, then your job. And family includes your partner.Then make decisions based on rationality, objectivity, femineine women awhat's best for your growth, dignity, detachment, neuroscience, the psychology of relationships, tact, being street-smart and book-smart, integrity, and values.