Man who quickly move on from one to other shows they were never serious. take women as fun .Always remember, men who quickly move from one woman to another often show that they haven't processed their previous relationships. Why? Because, just like branches, they keep moving from one thing to another. They cannot sit with their feelings, process them, or heal, so they seek another relationship, another change, and another excitement to fill that void.

Remember, you might not be the only one. After marriage, he could repeat the same pattern and move on to someone else.

I genuinely don't understand why you would get involved with a man who has already shown you these patterns. Ahd, who was rumoured to have been involved with several actresses. You knew about his alleged brief affair with Kubra. while still inrelation with you. I don't know whether that was true or not, but if you knew about these patterns, it would have been immature to ignore them and rush into a relationship. becoz u priortize your emotion which is just senslr and indicators and belief and patterns of your life if u will chamge your enviroment knolwedge tgese emotions of how u see things will change. so emotions are raw. your self loyalty ,discipline and knolwedge. relatiinship pattern and reading islam neuroscience knowledge then disvipline sensory input control u do abd make decision even at the moment you heart not wants too but this is called brain has skills and tools usko polish kiya ho woh protecr krty he apke heart ko and Protect yiur heart ismen khuda rehta hai. ghum na khao yeh islam kehta hai ap jb depression and losing urself over worldy things islam and real purpose of life akhirat k liye kya hi bache ga .hazrat ali said no worldly things. deseeve one drop of tears.

The same pattern was visible again. Let a man grieve and heal first. You could have said, “Go and heal first. Let's revisit this relationship after a few months, once you've processed your previous relationship. After that, we can see whether we genuinely want to take things further.”

And if you're not interested in dating someone who has just come out of a relationship, be clear about that. You could say, “If we still feel the same way after some time apart, we'll see where things go.” Have that conversation after he returns months later, if he does.

Stay detached and observe and say this . If it was merely an adventure for him, he might lose interest and move on. But if his intentions are genuine, he may still make an effort to stay in touch. Don't rely on texting alone, though; observe his consistency, accountability, and actions over time.

Sadaqah do foranwhen u like someone bala hui tal jayegi and acha hu toh ALLAH WILL SHOW U. U JUST KEEP GROWING SKILLS AND BE JOYFUL WHILE ENJOYING LIFE BOUNDARIES. AGAR APKE LIYE HOGA VERY RELAXEDLY APKI ZINDAGI MEN AYEGA AND JB AJAAYEGA APKI PAS SKILL HOGI TU APKO MAINTAIN OR VALUE KARWANE AYEGi.q k sadqa sy apny Allah py chor dia and ALLAH BOHOT ACHY SY CHEZE CLEAR KRTY HAI AND SURAH WAQIAH BEST FOR PARTNER AND RIZQ. Leave what you cannot control to Allah, and observe people's actions rather than getting carried away by their words..Again rptd past mistake ek pathar sy thokar kha k sekhy ni

if his parnts werent ready ap jitna hard ho apko nikal ana chahiye tha u shud hav said,cant start things this way,better go to our seperte ways.if he chosen u over his parents.sari life resentment, and ehsan k unpy apko choose kia. Tu kbhi parents ki mrzi k bghair ni. .

And instead of coming on insta U should have said k apny maa baaap k khilaf ja k without their blessings mujhy b shadi ni krni but yes ek bat hy u should hv updated me k cheze ni work out hogi. I trusted you .anyway U were a good co actor na is sy zyada na is sy kam , i curated every word ina calculative and far sighted way. By saying u were a good co actor apne directky bola b ni k you were a bad partner but u leave it open to interpretation ise kehty hai planting a seed, directly bola b ni but he will keep thinking about k usne mujhy good human or good partner ni bola. u feel played but its ur fault to not backing out even after realizng .

And, of course, keep growing your own skills. Aap apni value tabhi recognise aur establish karte ho jab aapke paas apni skills, self-respect, , aur clear boundaries hoti hain. Your worth isn't dependent on whether a man chooses you; it's reflected in how you choose yourself.