Emotions are just indicators. Ap k pas yeh sari skills k sath apne sahi tariqy men guide krna hota hy ,neuroscience neuroplasticity

,psychology of realtionships ,startegic calculative dignity integrity ,rational objective sy ap faisla karty islam k sath Rationality, objectivity, integrity, being calculative and strategic, neuroscience, neuroplasticity and Islam. Make decisions according to that, rationally and objectively. Sadqa de k. K yeh insan specially partner but even in job and everything kar k karo. Even if the decision you made turns out to be wrong, bohot unlikely hai ,but you will never lose yourself in that process. You will just take it as, “Achha, isko is angle se bhi dekhna tha.” Toh us mein aap apne emotions aur apne aap ko lose nahi karte.

And please don't look at lips. It looks very ugly, and unwanted attention and lust are performative. Aap khaam kha apni life ka time waste karte ho because aapko samajh nahi aata ke is it lust or a person's real intention. Kyun apni life ko mushkil banana? And anyway, adorable energy dil mein sirayat karti hai. You develop a likeable aura.

And this adorableness and soft expression, soft exterior femininity, is the biggest flirting thing because you don't even have to flirt; woh sirf dil mein rehta hai. You become someone everyone sees with puppy eyes. And it's not about people getting validation. Aap apne saath bhi complete ho, but you understand that you need to have a likeable aura, you need to network, appreciate, and be supportive. Overgive karne ki zaroorat nahi hai. Doosron ko yeh pata hona chahiye ke zahir hai, main apna dekhungi. Yeh clarity honi chahiye, taake rules and regulations mein balance rahe.

But appreciating and being supportive is enough. Jab aap overgive karte ho na, aur kisi ne shuru se koi galat baat ki, aapne uska witty comeback nahi diya. And witty comebacks in a way ke baat kehne ke baad, then add a giggle with it. And you can giggle only when you've practised privately, so it looks very comfortable and natural. Agar kabhi kabhi aap yeh bhi na karo, we still have confidence.

Mawara ne wapas jaake she took a break and sorted herself out. Watch her interviews; she's very calm and regulated. The way she is giving an interview about something hot in Let's Try Mohabbat, and she put him in his place when Danyal upar se aa raha tha, saying ke main ny inke dramas ni dekhy ,with a superiority complex. Usne directly nahi bola, indirectly bola ke maine bhi naye naye logon k saty kam kiya hai ,i just focus on my script choice and work. Usne she put him in his place. But with Maliha Rehman, interview she was softer. i learn alot from amna from something haute she used to naggy the way she hamdles hasan now oit yet put her opinion softky but firmky quiet confidence with cordiality ,and know how to handle his man ego. There is a balance. mawra she knows how to put ppl in aplace and Hassan ko bhi she put him in his place. in a fun social witty light way taky ppl apki silence k used to na ho.unko ho k witty and fun way men on the spot jawab degi so learn that skill i learn alot from vharisma on command utube chanel .

overgives and sacrifices, and then resentment hoti hai, aur agla banda aapse expect kiye jaata hai. Jab aap ekdum se bolte ho, aap tolerate nahi karte, aakhri mein jab aap bardasht kar kar ke tolerate nahi karte, toh agla banda woh seh nahi pata. Woh bolta hai, “Iski kitni himmat!” Then woh aapko badnaam karna shuru kar deta hai. Why? Kyunki aapne usko aadat daal li hoti hai ke you will tolerate it.

Have joyful energy with soft boundaries, an appreciative, supportive, and detached energy.