these are detachment. And uska best tareeqa ALALAH NY BATAYA HAI . K KInDNESS WITHOUT BLUNDARIES IS EXPLOITATION AND NICENESS AND PEOPLE PLEASING. VOID. BUT ACHY SY BAT KARO I M HEre k fun peace mazy waka mahol ,FUN SMILE SADQA JARIYA K MENE ISKA SILA ALLAH SY MANGTA HU .TU PHIR EXPECTATION KHATAM RESENTMENT B OR SILA ALLAH SY BEHTAR KON DEGA ,AALH K ILAWA KOK KUCH NI DESAKTA TU BUS SOCIAL SKILLS. AND USMEN BTRAET PEOPLE LIKE ALAH K BANDAY ISMEN B ALALH PRIORTY HAI .RIGHT SEQUNCE TU WOHI LOG APKE PICHE AYENGY IZZAT DEMGY HUNAYUN SAWED MASTER IN IT. AND THEN SEE PATTERN READING IF THEY DISRESPECTFUL COLD TU BUS DDOR DOOR SY SLAAM DUA. ACHY SY MUSKURA K MILNA. And dignity on top. Never close proximity train hrslef to not look at lips. I used to scan face unnecesay attention men kisi b unwanted lust attarntion sy apni emotion and low frequency kharab ni karo hi. Kam karny jao jodhar b jao us jagah mne joyful fun lekin apni boundaries or priorty ki cheze bolni and then apny ghar. Apmy gym friends yoga frmds. Islamic teaching afra and hijab girl psychologist unse baat karo. Phir ana jan achy logo. Sy vasay chaudhry saifi hasan musadiq malik and naddem baig networking and obseev advise. Specilaly vasay he knows how to put ppl in place. And woh afvose ISLAM HAZRAT ALI. HAZRAT KISI B NEUROSCIENCOST AND NEUROPLASTICITY SY B BEHTAR ISLOYE GATE OF KNOLWEGE AND PROPHIET MUHAMMAD P.B U.H AS WELL. AND ALSO PSYCHOLOGY OF RELATION. DETACHMNET. DIGNITY NARRATIVE REPUATATION,STRATEGY CALCULATIVE AND STRREET SMART SOFT SKILLS .INTEGITTY RATIONALLY OBJECTIVELEY IN SAB K SATH FAISLA KARO NOT OUT OF EMOTIIONS BUT WHATS BEST FOR U WHILE GAINING THIS KNWOLEDGE. OR US SY BB PHELY SADQA DO RELATIONSHIP MEN KHAS BUT LIFE KI HAR CHOTI AND ALSO SUBAH UTHTY SAR DOYA THEN SUARAH BAQRAH TV PY LAGAI. READD SUARHA REHMAN AND SURAH WAQIA AND SURAH MULK YEH 3 ROZ SAB AREA OF LIFE ALLAH KO SUPURD BJT ACTIONS AND GROWTH SKILLS SY AYEHNGY TU VALUE KARWA PAOGI WOH KHUD KARNA HAI Surah Fatiha, seven times. Surah Fatiha is the biggest blessing in healing, along with Surah Rahman, Surah Naas, and Surah Falak for bad nazar. Yeh cheezen aapki internal healing karti hain aur impossible ko bhi possible kar deti hain. Cancer mein, even Noman Ijaz ne bhi kaha. I also remember ek insan ki hospital test reports bilkul theek aati thi. But kisi ne kaha ke isko Surah Rahman sunwao. Hospital mein Surah Rahman sunwaya, toh uske body mein se keede nikalne lag gaye. So, there was an unknown substance in that person's body. Healing ke liye, of course, aapko dawa aur yeh cheezen leni chahiye. Dawa bhi pharmacy wale bahut si aisi dete hain jo nuqsan-deh hoti hain. Refer to healthy things.

But coming back to the topic, detachment is even in the law of the universe, neuroscience, and biology. Allah Ta'ala bhi yahi kehte hain, aur Islam mein bhi yahi hai. Everything leads back to Islam, which is, mujhse jo gumaan rakhoge, main waisa hi hoon. Which is what? Positive self-talk ke Allah Ta'ala bhi chhor ke nahi jayenge, Allah mere liye behtar hi karega.

Yeh kisi bhi situation mein, of course, aapko samajhdari dikhani padegi. Patterns ki knowledge gain karni padegi, kyunki Allah Ta'ala ne aapko direction de di hai. Woh khud aap gain nahi kar rahe, pareshaniyan apni zindagi mein unnecessarily la rahe ho, woh aapki alag marzi hai. Azmaaishen aapki personality dikhane ke liye aayengi, woh Allah Ta'ala ki taraf se aayengi. Lekin logon se aap baar baar thokrein kha rahe ho, kyunki aap logon ke saath shirk kar rahe ho. Logon ko, job ko, apne partner ko apne centre of the universe banaya hua hai. Even mom ke liye bhi aap keh sakte hain ke she completes me. They are the most beautiful part of your existence, but unconditional love Allah ke siwa kisi ka bhi nahi. Let that sink in.

And also, apna koi bhi faisla karte waqt yahi yaad rakhna: apni aakhirat kharab nahi karni, chahe woh job ka maamla bhi ho. Mainne apni zindagi mein seekha hai ke aapke parents ki taraf se bhi aisa ho jaata hai. Yeh chhoti si zindagi hai.

And detachment is even in the law of the universe, which is, jis cheez ke liye aap jitne desperate hoge na, usmein utna zyada push and pull aayega, aur woh aapse door ho jayegi. Allah Ta'ala bhi usmein best hi daal deta hai, kyunki aapka sequence bana rehta hai.

Centre of the universe Allah ko bana kar, healing ke liye apna vent karna, woj sahi jagha eneegy jayegi khun k den AALLAH NY TUNWOH BKESSING K TOR PAR AYEGI ENEEGY BACK LOGO SY VENT KARO GY TU US YOPIC SOTUAYIIN SY MORE ATTACHEMNT APAN TIME MAZEED BESAKOONA OR NEURONS BECOME MORE STRONGER REALTEED TO THAT THING AND WOH ENERGY EMPTY FEELING BAN K ATI. LOG SHIGHAL OR SUPPORTIVE APRECITAIVE BUT BOUNDRAIES K ZAHIR HAI JO APKE LIYE ACHS HY AP WOH KARO GY YEH RULES AND REGUKATION HONY CHAHIYE. apni demands rakhni hain, apni baat karni hai, apna rona Allah Ta'ala ke saamne dua ki tarah karna hai. Rona, rest karna then rationally, objectively sochna, and in all of this, skills ke saath faisla lena. apne emotion ko sagi direction dena all of this knowleege and skills sy. mostly islam and sadqa .Neuroscience, neuroplasticity, Islam, Hazrat Ali, and relationship psychology, strategic and calculative decision-making, calculated risks, aur sabse bada sadqa dena.

Rationally objective, street-smart plus smart integrity. Yeh hota hai self-loyal decision-making. Aapne apne emotions ko samjha, instant pleasure nahi, balki life build karke long-lasting aur behtar decisions liye. So, is tarah aapke har area of life mein aapka sequence bana rehta hai. Phir aap apni growth pe focus karte ho.

Jab aapke relationships aur har area of life mein aapke paas skills hongi, toh sab cheezon mein aap apni value karwa loge. Job mein ab dekho, job mein aapki be-sakooni hai. Itni mehnat karne ke baad bhi aapke haters zyada hain, fans kam hain. And positive PR karwao, because preconceived notions are a thing, and they matter a lot. Toh log baar baar bol rahe honge. Even main bhi thodi der baad usse influence hone lag jaaungi and start to give weight to that.

So, soft and cordial, sab se baat karni hai. Apne hobbies ke friends alag, ghar mein jo aate hain woh friends alag. And these secrets kisi ko nahi batane, even family ko bhi nahi. Hazrat Ali ka quote hai: “If you let your secrets loose, you will become a prisoner to them.”