There is a boundary, of course. If a person is committed pr even not ,platonic bond rakho. Iqra kanwal is liye areeb blky khud iqra k sath time spend krna cahhata hai and even frnds k sath b ly jata hai q k woh ahsinmazaq karti hai but bilkul b interrst ni show krti or shy ni hoti. Fun or sar py nai charhati ,just people skills. Not looking at lips and signal. Agar adat b hai tu correct. Unwanted attention and complexity in life. I like to keep my life drama free and emo Build your social skills .kEsy rishty and bond comfortable rehta hai. ,situationship or romance ko hawa bna diya center of life. so you have to respect that. But you know what? Men feel comfortable, peaceful, joyful, and adored when they feel reassured and enjoy your company. And that can happen when you smile and giggle at little things. Not because you’re being performative, but because you build that habit.
I developed that habit myself, and it affected the people around me, too. When you giggle at the smallest things, even a tense mahol or a tense baat can feel funny because of how you react to it.
Everything is a reaction. Everything is a skill. No one is born knowing everything. Sometimes someone is born with a talent, but Allah has given us adaptability, so we can learn those qualities, too. Everything is learnable.
I learned to smile and giggle at little things. Then I corrected my smile to find what suited me best. Sometimes I’d feel awkward or get in my head, but I became very good at maintaining a poker face and holding my smile. How? Through repetition. Even while washing, eating, watching a show, or reading a book, I would practise smiling. Find the smile that suits you and work on it.
And hire a BTS team to record your moments and let them publicize them through BTS vlogs shared by others, rather than doing it yourself. Otherwise, it might look like you’re desperate for male attention and shipping, when you’re actually just promoting yourself and your charms.