if u have low self worth than u will excuse behaviour in the name of empathy ,if u havenot healed u will project your parents onto your partner subconsiously. and agar apki feminity is irregulated phir na pa idhar k hotu na udhar k then u become chammi dumb .get used .marraige out of convenience ,upar sy rough tough but andar sy coconut soft jb k feminity is soft exterior soft boice charming expresison but ration calculative strategic and integrity street smart +book smart neuroplasticity. discipline. and I also feel ke larkiyon ki bhi responsibility hoti hai. should have understood the fact that some men still boys , have neither the capability to start a family, nor the leadership, maturity, responsibility, loyalty, or commitment to fulfil their promises. These are the things that turn a boy into a man.

If a man is still in his playboy era, even if he is committed, he will cheat. A calm, mature man understands that as a leader, he has to solve problems and make things better. and firm on his decision whe he started .

These boys khud relationships mein parte hain without having any clear purpose. They make a girl fall in love with them, by. acting k woh alag hy ,so cool manly ,calm respectful loyal. and leadership and then, unhe apni communication nai karny ati pehky they iwll say kuch ni karlo karlo yeh b and when a women actually do it toh unko gaslight and tantrums throw k yhe q kia ?abhsiahke and aishwariya type. aishawariya lost all her spark and try to dim her light just to make other and insecure man comfortable an druined her life.so when amke u fall in with false pretence when things get serious, unko commitment issues ho jate hain. apny rasamo rivaj yad ajaty hai. tu rasam rivaj yad kar k waha hi sasta jhota ishq larana tha na. ap itny agy aky then piche mor k dekho woh bnad bhag gaya hota ahi. ise khai men dhaka dena hi khty hen. ya phir unke andar itni salahiyat hi nahi hoti ke woh apne commitment ke promise ko fulfil kar sakein.

Not just in Pakistan, but all over the world, only 5–10% of men are actually marriage-material types. Har koi mard nahi hota.

If you have different values and purposes in life, you should be clear about them in your own head. Aap apni life mein kisi aur ko emotions ke saath is tarah hurt nahi kar sakte, na hi kisi ke emotions ke saath khel sakte hain.

For a man, it's just a game, and there are no consequences for them. This is the difference between a boy and a man. They talk big and yap a lot about everything, but when it comes to actually fulfilling their commitment, that's when you find out whether they're a man or just a boy.