you don't need to care about all of that. Apni personal sanity aur boundaries maintain karo. Agar attraction ho rahi hai, or you think someone is interested in you, you don't need to take care of all of that or overanalyse it.

Jab koi partner ya koi insaan aapki zindagi mein rishta lekar aaye, ya aapke dil mein uske liye hamdardi paida hone lage, sadqa do aur Allah Ta'ala se dua maango. Literally, Allah Ta'ala ne aapko kisi bohot badi museebat se bachaya ho sakta hai. Sadqa do aur dua maango ke agar kal ko is mein koi bala ya museebat hai, toh Allah Ta'ala usay afiyat ke saath taal de. Aur agar is mein mere liye sukoon, khushi aur rahat hai, toh Ya Allah, isay mere liye blessing bana de aur aasani ke saath meri zindagi mein le aa. And also give me the discipline and skills to manage it well.

Is dua ko apni zindagi ka hissa bana lo. Yeh sirf partner ke liye nahi hai; you should do it for every situation, every job, every friend, and every relationship.

Subah uthte hi sadqa do, aur apne din ki shuruaat gratitude ke saath karo. At least ten things you are grateful for.

Kyunke rozana jab hum kehte rehte hain, “Yeh bhi theek nahi ho raha, woh bhi theek nahi ho raha,” toh hum apne ghanton ka bohot saara waqt isi tarah ki complaints mein guzaar dete hain. Iska asar hamare mindset, habits aur un cheezon par bhi hota hai jinhein hum baar baar repeat karte hain. Aur Allah Ta'ala ke saamne bhi humein yeh yaad rakhna chahiye ke hum sirf complaints karne wale bande na ban jaayein, balki uski nematon ko bhi pehchanein aur unka shukar ada karein.

Of course, aapki zindagi mein pareshaniyan aati hain. You need to be conscious of them without making them the centre of your entire life. Allah Ta'ala se dua maango ke woh aapki pareshani door kar de. Agar emotionally hurt feel kar rahe ho, toh Allah Ta'ala ke saamne ro lo, apna dil khol kar dua maango, but don't forget to be grateful for the blessings you already have.

Don't take the things that are easily available in your life for granted: your independence, money, food, water, and health. Aapke paas khana hai, aap paani pee sakte ho, aap chal phir sakte ho. Kal ko agar paani hi available na ho, toh wohi paani kitni badi nemat ban jaayega.

There is a story about a person who had many difficulties in life. An angel came to him and asked what he had to be grateful to Allah for. He replied, “Main Allah ka shukar kyun ada karun? Mere paas toh kuch bhi nahi hai.”

The lesson of the story is that if you keep looking only at what you lack, you'll continue overlooking the blessings you already have.

On the other hand, a person who recognised how much Allah Ta'ala had given him would say, “Allah Ta'ala ne mujhe itni nematein di hain. Main uska shukar kyun na ada karun?” That person remained grateful, and gratitude became a reason to recognise and appreciate even more blessings in life.

And there's another story, although mujhe uska exact waqia clearly yaad nahi, about someone who wasn't in good health but remained grateful to Allah Ta'ala despite their difficulties and eventually became healthy.

So, the point is that gratitude doesn't mean denying your problems; it means acknowledging your problems while never forgetting your blessings.