Anushka literally never played liberal open about that kill, marry, date question on Karan Johar. Like, everyone is doing it, so I should too. She stayed conservative about that. So her man, Virat, feels exclusive with her, and that makes him love her more. She can also demand that exclusivity from him. That's how a relationship stays strong. She is still popular, she still gets love, but now she gets love for herself. She is known for her work, not for being shipped with every co-actor of hers. She maintained that conservative approach.
Jiya Shankar really wanted to reach higher because she knows she has the acting capabilities. But she said she would never compromise on intimacy scenes and kissing scenes. But no movie can offer her that kind of opportunity. What she did was stop waiting for movies to come. She made her brand on Instagram, like a TV channel, which BTS did as well. No amount of talent can make you recognizable and help people connect with you until you have social media marketing, charm, enhancing expressions, and all that.
And you also need strategies. Whatever new trend is happening, you have to adapt. Now, you should use Korean or English songs that are trending instead of Indian music, because you are anyway banned in India. So choose songs from the West or Korea that have a larger reach. Now, more than actors and drama people, Jiya Shankar's attitude is being noticed.
Rashmika Mandanna said she would never do bikini scenes because she wasn't okay with that much intimacy and posing. But the fact that you were in a relationship with a partner and his best friend, usne kuch notice nahi kiya? He ended up saying that it was just a character. He is doing the same lust scenes with Komal.
You didn't have control over your emotions. And people who don't control their emotions often end up getting ruswa. Ruswayi hoti hai.
And how do you even get attracted to a Danyal-type man? Trust me, check your morality, integrity, and values. Either you're the same, or your values are very cheap.
The amount of things he has said in his songs, the way he has behaved, everything tells you something. Every man may experience some attraction towards women, but when a man bluntly talks about certain things regarding women, it shows how firmly he believes in them and how much space those thoughts occupy in his mind. My pattern reading backs that up. Even Khakhan himself has spoken about this topic.
Even Khakhan said his friend is a playboy. He himself said he's the most horny. He literally asked Shabir Jaffry during Ramadan, "Kya roze mein kissing se roza toot nahi jaata?"
Before coming on the podcast, Wajahat Hussain asked him, "Of course, he knows you. Tumhara condom saath leke ghoomta hai?" He was like, "Ji, main leke ghoomta hoon."
I mean, and if you or Hamza are no less, what kind of men are you guys attracted to?
And for that, if you want peace in your life and healthy relationships, first, along with all the things I already told you, choose a man whose eyes never wander here and there. He should also be a little introverted, in the sense that he doesn't engage much with women. Not introverted in the sense that he doesn't get opportunities, but in the sense that he himself doesn't seek unnecessary interactions with women.
And for all of that, if you start developing feelings for someone, sadqa do. Bhala woh tal jayegi, nahi, bhala hi aapki zindagi mein aa jayegi. Just observe that person. Apne life ke har part mein growth and skills ko update karte raho. Agar woh aapke liye hai, woh aapki zindagi mein aa jayega, rishta leke aa jayega. As simple as that.
When a man wants to commit, he will commit. You just observe whatever he's doing. Don't dictate to him or tell him what you want in a relationship, because that way, men become performative, and you can't distinguish whether he's genuinely that person or just faking it. And men can be very performative.