Syeda Hazrat Khadija's personality, oh my goodness! This is what femininity is.literallj right example She was independent but also interdependent.balance ,rational strategic calculative yet soft ,principles ,dignity

Femininity is a soft exterior but a very rational, calculative and strategic mind. She had all the offers from the biggest people who existed in Makkah. Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) wasn't, of course, as significant to us at that time as he is to us today. But she chose him based on his personality.

She chose him because we women have a biological clock, and we need to be mindful of it. We should choose a person with whom we feel safe, protected, provided for, and secure in all aspects.

You can't just choose someone because butterflies aa rahe hain. These are temporary feelings. Self-loyalty means considering my biological clock, my future children, how he is going to be as their father, how my children will see him treating me, how empathetic he is, whether he is a provider, how caring he is, Khuda ka khauf hai ya nahi, and all the attributes I have already told you about.

His eyes are not wandering here and there. Observe how he manages conflict, how he behaves when he is angry, and how he regulates himself. This is what it is about.

And she was the biggest businesswoman! I would also tell you to start a business. But first, of course, work on your growth and skills. After some time, start doing business. It will help you grow in your personality a lot, a lot. I'm telling you, be a businesswoman.

ACTING AND YOUR PROFESSIONAL IDENTITY

Acting ka project aisa ho ke itni achhi script ho that you do one project a year or even once every two years, but make it a woman-centric role.

You cannot be apne mardon ke, shipping ke marhoon-e-minnat. Apne aap ko us level tak limit aur short mat karo. You are not that type of actress. You are bigger than that. You have so much potential. You are not made for shipping.

And shipping mein bhi agar karte hain, there should be dignity. Never compromise.

Close proximity scenes? Stupid larkiyan hoti hain jo karti hain. Anyway, dil mein aapko insaan aap se pyaar karta hai. You are imagination scene, hallucination scene of Zanjeer last episode. That got so much love, and people were adoring you for YOU, not related to SRK or anything else.

That moment when you shied away and smiled, people loved it. And the intelligence you put into that scene, people were talking about that more.

Although your confessions and expressions were so beautiful, I rarely see people giving you credit for that or actually discussing your performance. Rarely. Although you performed it so beautifully.

Uske liye itne ads ban hi nahi rahe. People are just taking it in a soft-porn way or a romantic, vulgar way, focusing on kissing and all. I haven't seen enough people appreciating how beautiful you looked, how you made that scene intense while looking so soft and beautiful.

Aapki acting waste ho jaati hai shipping mein agar aap close, intense aur intimate scenes mein chale jao. You are not made for shipping. Do female-centric roles, dialogue-heavy roles, thoda bohot shipping, and then apne business pe dhyan do.

YOUR EXPRESSIONS AND SOCIAL MEDIA PRESENCE

Then apni expression skills pe kaam karo. Maine itne saare reposts kiye hain, Daisy 567 8 9. Adopt those expressions. Adopt those expressions and practice them. Record yourself.

Kyunki jo expressions, reactions, calm and regulated nervous system, joyful personality, boundaries, rationality, strategic thinking, calculative decisions and conflict-management skills hain, all these skills make you a complete woman.

So aap apna social media game jitna strong karti ho, your low, fun, goofy, sad and expressive sides, the more people get to see you, connect with you and become charmed by you.

It's all strategic. Itna aapko drama mein acting karke pyaar nahi milta.

Aapka project dekhne ke baad people search your Instagram account. They want to see whether your personality is charming, whether your expressions are cute, whether you look beautiful, whether they find you interesting.

If they see you at your best potential, they stay; otherwise, they move on.

Toh bhale aap jitne bhi achhe actor ho, it can all get ruined if you don't know how to maintain that connection with your audience.

Social media is bigger than acting in terms of maintaining your audience connection.

BUSINESS, INDEPENDENCE AND LONG-TERM GROWTH

So acting saal mein ek ya do saal mein ek project karo. Make it count. Leave a lasting impact instead of doing three or four projects every year and entering the race with all the new bachche who are coming into the industry.

No. Stay relevant, but choose your projects wisely. Stay relevant through social media.

Project ek do saal mein, and business. Do business!

Itne businesses ne 100 crore kama liye. Some businesses fail, some succeed, but you need to be smart about it.

Watch Shark Tank India. It is so entertaining but also useful. You will learn a lot, especially from Season 1. Watch their short clips as well.

So you will learn a lot, and your personality will grow in the process.

In the end, it's all about you growing as an individual. Both will be beneficial for you. You will grow professionally, financially and personally. Whatever I said, the ultimate goal is to develop your full potential.