Calculative log ese chaos ko bn ny ni dete ,foran address ,dissolve ,remove ,or ap k khilaf itna horaha un accounts ko remove karwao. Through pr. Jb pr ki game khel rahy u should too and the fact har koi hi karwata hy ab ,lekin apke mamly men negative pr isliye kamiyab horahi hai q k dosre takar ka pr karwaty hai and battle karty or ab bheegi billi bna k chup k beth jati. Apke na bolny sy topic cahnge hojaye. But narrative and bitter feeling reh jati and preconcieve notion is true and the fact yeh leeway mazeed himmat barhata hai .learn ppl skills. I love jannat once said i love faisu ppl skills and within 1yr usne khud woh cheze layi. She is a very sorted business minded,detached strategic calculative rational integrity isloye sorted hai. Or aesi larkiyan and log hi kamiyab hoty. Ppl questioning ek do comments k saboor kesi behen and hpw saboor totally change it ,i love calculative ppl with dignity &integrity knowledge rationality mind. They win. Abhsihek malhan jese. First of all, Bilal ny apni cheezen clear ki. Actually, hua yeh tha k jab woh event attend karne gaya tha, he was unconfident about his English speech because uski speech ka mazaq bana tha. So he didn't want to be in that position again. Isliye usny foran bola k speech upload nahi honi chahiye. But woh rumour phail gaya k Bilal ny bola meri speech upload na karo. Foran cover up karne k liye his team came on Reddit. Within ten minutes, his team came and fans said k nahi, Bilal ny aesa nahi kaha tha, and then they uploaded the speech.

Same with Dur-e-Fishan and nAmeer and their dating rumour. Of course, they have a thing. It's very obvious. But kisi aur k through reveal karna, us mein phir gossipy aur negative feel aati hai. and rcntly bilal showed with emoji he is yearning forher ,

But sir, aap apni cheez ko khud apny tareeqay sy present karo toh us mein shadabad achay tareeqay sy aap present hoty ho. So usi waqt usny makeup artist sy reveal karwaya. Isko kehty hain hikmat-e-amli.

Aap k khilaf negative PR already ho raha hai. Mahaz pehly sy khara hai aap k khilaf. Topic ko avoid karne sy topic side py ho jayega, lekin negative preconceived notions bahar logon k dilon mein reh jayengi. Samajhdar log rationally, objectively aur collectively foran cheezen theek karty hain.

And patience ka matlab yeh nahi hota k you have to tolerate things. Patience ka matlab hota hai apni baat ko sahi tareeqay sy rakhna. Yeh society beautiful words k through right definitions ko wrong meanings de kar humein ghalat cheezen normalize karwa rahi hai, taake humein ghalat aur sahi ka farq samajh na aaye. Right definitions ko wrong meanings mein, wrong things ko right definitions ki cover mein present kiya jata hai.

Women ko strong hona Islam ny sikhaya hai. Hazrat Fatima, Hazrat Zainab (Karbala mein jis tarah she showed strength and resilience), Hazrat Khadija. So don't tell me about women. A feminine woman is strategic, calculative and rational. Women k liye decision-making periods hoty hain, pregnancy hoti hai, periods hoty hain. Allah Ta'ala ny baar baar gham na khany aur apny dil ka khayal rakhny ki baat ki hai. Agar aap depression mein chali jaogi toh ibadat aur daily life dono affect hongy. Toh aap ny duniya aur akhirat dono ko mushkil mein daal diya. Hazrat Ali ka quote hai, "Nothing in this world deserves your tears." Kis k peechy ro rahi ho?

So just grow your skills, expression skills, social skills. Everything is a muscle. You're literally so beautiful, aur abhi maine dekha, sorry to say, makeup aur outfit b aapko save nahi kar sakty because you looked very distressed and aged. unflamation unhealthy .sleep deprived ,botox filler ni larwana .literally roz gus shua and face yoga while readinga nd mobile krte ap krsakty adat ki bat. adat habit or perdonality ban jati jai. itna stress kis ka,allah wali chez khud hath men li hai jo karni bai woh allah lar dali hai . I'm sorry to say, but you have so much potential. Please, apna mujhy woh wala face chahiye jo aap ny cut scene mein white kurta pehen kar Zanjeerein story mein upload kiya tha.chupke sy bajar ajaye . So grow your skills.

Conflict resolution skills, social skills. Jab aap logon sy milty rehty ho, toh aapka social muscle build hota hai. You become more comfortable around people.

Ab relationship aur shadi Allah ki cheezen hain. Aap apni cheezen Allah py chhor kar un cheezon ko khud control kar rahy ho jo aap k control mein nahi. Aapka sequence of life hi ghalat hai. Healing aap logon sy maangti ho, support aap logon sy leti ho aur job ko aap ny shirk banaya hua hai. Unko itna sochti ho bajaye Allah k. Sequence life ka hi ghalat hai.

Healing k liye dua karo, process your emotions. Aap royi, dua ki, emotions ko process kiya. Zyada sy zyada teen din kisi cheez ko grieve karo. Even death k baad bhi grief ki ek muddat hoti hai. Allah Ta'ala hamary brain ko jaanta hai. Jab aap ek hi story baar baar repeat karty ho, toh woh story aapka trauma ban sakti hai.

So ab Zev aur Ezra ki example deti hun. Of course, Ezra thori angry hai, but she's very centred. Please, apni life mein men ko decentre karo.

Hasan ny aa kar poocha, "You were crying so much after Zevb" Everyone thought it was fake and all. Do tareeqay thy. She could have become very defensive or thrown Zeb under the bus. Usny dono hi nahi kiye. Usny smart, calculative aur rational tareeqa choose kiya, which was being casual about it.

Usny hamesha yeh rakha k main tang kapray nahi pehnungi. And question jo men b realize kia ,why are you uploading your nude photos for? obbious male validation? Apny dil sy poochho, without male validation, or ppl validation call u hot? Agar aap ny apni body dekhni hai toh mirror mein bhi dekh sakty ho. Why do you need to show other people that you're naked? Jab aap validation apni zaat mein lena seekh jaogy, aap k aura mein woh confidence feel hoga.

So she said k zahir hai, main sara waqt Zev k sath baithti thi. Aap attach ho jaty ho, toh phir zahir hai, jab woh chala jata hai toh aap sad hoty ho. Usny itna casually explain kiya k Hasan ki awkwardness diffuse ho gayi. Warna dono situations mein Zev bhi awkward hota. Log bolty k jhoot bol rahi hai, inka kuch nahi tha. Aur agar woh bolti k kuch tha, toh woh bhi ajeeb lagta.

And you know, men like it when a woman isn't clingy and doesn't show her love excessively in the initial phase, because that can kill the charm. Men are hunters; they are chasers. Every woman who treats a man well, even if she loves him more, can still be rational and maintain boundaries.

Saboor ko dekh lo. Saboor was clearly interested in Ali, but she was good at being around him like a friend. Aur aesa act kiya jese mujhy toh pata hi nahi tha. And he waited and approached. Man's hunter instinct. You need to let him take the initiative.

For that, pehly aap apni growth skills develop karo, socialize karo, detach karo. Apni growth mein invest karty raho and just socialize. Socialize in a way k aap friends bana rahy ho, logon sy mil rahy ho. Kabhi koi friend bhi ban sakta hai. Phir observe karo.

Allah Ta'ala k paas aap ny Surah Waqiah parhni hai, dua maangni hai aur apny andar integrity develop karni hai. Khud ko khamkha emotions mein indulge nahi karna, har relationship mein nahi parna, aur kisi k committed life partner k sath involve nahi hona. Behko nahi. Allah Ta'ala aapki choices dekhta hai. Jab aap constantly achi choices make karty ho, toh aapko bhi apni choices k mutabiq cheezen milti hain.

Isi liye main keh rahi thi k roz hum complain karty hain k yeh nahi ho raha, woh nahi ho raha. Toh subah uth kar das cheezen likho jin k liye aap grateful ho. Taake Allah Ta'ala k paas jab farishtay aapke din ka hisaab le kar jayen, toh aapki grateful cheezen bhi hon. And your brain also changes when you stop focusing only on negative things and start practising gratitude.

Allah Ta'ala ny farmaya hai k agar tum shukar karo gy toh main tumhein aur dunga. Mujhy ek qissa bhi yaad hai ek bemar insan ka jo Allah ka shukar karta tha aur usko sehat mili. Aur ek insan kehta raha k mere paas Allah ko thank you bolny k liye kuch hai hi nahi. I can't clearly describe the whole context, mujhy achay sy yaad nahi hai, but aesa hi kuch tha.

So just socialize in a friendly manner. Aap lifetime k liye friend bana sakty ho. Agar lifetime k liye nahi bhi mila, toh koi baat nahi. Nothing is permanent. We are here in this world like travellers. Jab aap yeh baat samajh jaogy k apni zaat k sath aap khud ho, toh aapko apny andar complete hona hai. Another person should add value to your life, companionship. Aapki peace kharab nahi karni, bas aapka support system banna hai. That should be the goal, not putting the responsibility of your healing on someone else.

Jitna aap apni skills grow aur elevate karty jaogy, apni inner world py kaam karo gy, utna aapko achi cheezen aur clean treatment mil sakta hai. Koi kitna bhi beautiful ya intelligent ho, their internal state affects how they carry themselves at work, in opportunities, situationships and relationships.

Toh aap ny relationship aur partner Allah py chhor dena hai. Woh literally Allah ka department hai. Just make friendships. Jab aap khud apni growth skills develop karty ho, toh naturally joyful hoty ho. Boundaries matter. Men appreciate boundaries, and they appreciate a woman who isn't clingy.

Ezra ny jab aesa jawab diya tha, he liked it. It felt lighthearted. Agar woh all over the place hoti aur ronay k baad apny love ka izhar kar rahi hoti, toh situation different hoti. Usny bohot achay sy cheez handle ki. Rational woman always wins. A calculative, strategic woman with integrity.

So apni growth skills develop karo, phir chahe aapko seven or eight years wait karna paray. Rishta jab hona hai, Allah Ta'ala ny jab likha hai, tab hona hai. Right partner k sath hona chahiye. Tab tak apni life build karo aur friends banaty raho.

Friends k sath aap zyada open, joyful aur comfortable hoty ho. And the mystery of the initial phase, k she's into me or not, uski kitni feelings hain, can make someone curious. Lekin healthy relationship sirf mystery ya chasing py nahi, mutual interest, honesty aur compatibility py banti hai. If a man wants to pursue you, he can take the initiative himself.

And let a man be a man. Khud proposal k liye bhaagna ya har cheez control karna zaroori nahi. Allah Ta'ala ny jab likha hai, tab hi hona hai. Lekin hum logon ki be-sabri khatam nahi hoti. So just be friends.

Friends sy relationships bhi banti hain, like Ameer aur Mawra. They were friends for seven years. Aap Ali aur Saboor ko bhi dekh lo. Just be joyful around people. Aap sab k sath ek warm, friendly person ki tarah raho, larkiyon aur larkon dono k sath. Larkon k sath platonic way mein raho.

Bilal k liye bhi main clearly kahungi k woh thora conscious hoga. Shuru mein bohot zyada over nahi hona chahiye. Thora distance maintain karna, phir normal ho jana. Lekin kisi ko chase karwany k liye games khelna zaroori nahi. Woh naturally comfortable ho jayega. Negative cheezen jab kisi k baare mein hoti hain, toh woh affect hota hai. Koi bhi insan itna mature nahi hota k us par bilkul asar na ho.

Toh yeh cheezen apni life mein apply karo aur relationship wali nazar se har insan ko dekhna chhor do. Yeh sochna chhor do k yeh acha hai ya nahi, yeh mera partner ban sakta hai ya nahi. Be a centred person in life and enjoy life. Socialize karo.

Ab Ezra kisi party mein thi. She was sitting behind with very calm, quiet confidence. Har jagah ja kar bolna zaroori nahi hota. But company matters a lot. Aap socially comfortable hone lag jaty ho. Attend things, attend parties. Not saying k foran direct parties attend karne lag jao. Pehly three or four logon ka group banao jin k sath roz hang out karo.

Ab Saima G k sath acha, meri city mein bhi achay log hain. Itny saray log hain jin k sath aap reh sakty ho. Shuru shuru mein awkward hoga, of course, lekin awkward feeling hona normal hai. Start mein sab hi awkward hoty hain. As you start becoming comfortable, you'll naturally improve.

Larkiyon aur strangers k sath bhi comfortable hona bohot acha hota hai. Learn people skills from Saboor. She has great people skills. Like Jannat literally said, "I learned, want to learn people skills from Fazoo." And within one year, she changed, became so extroverted and social. And Ali goni was surprised and saif she evolved an djannat herself said nothing gives men contentment than me growing evolving